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This Doesn’t Work: “I’m Calling to See If You Have Any Questions”

Most schools should be in the business of chasing prospective families. At NMH, we used Unbounded360 to identify them early in the Admission Funnel, then the chase began. The hardest part of training someone to make those calls is to stop using the opening line, “I’m calling to see if you have any questions.” The primary goal is to engage prospective families effectively, ensuring they feel understood, valued, and eager to discover more about your school community. While this statement may seem polite and open-ended, it lacks the strategic intent and personalization necessary to foster connections. Frankly, it doesn’t encourage that busy customer to stay on the line with you.

The Problem with “I’m Calling to See If You Have Any Questions”

  1. Lack of Personalization: When reaching out to prospective families, personalization is key. The phrase “I’m calling to see if you have any questions” comes across as generic and impersonal. It does not demonstrate that you have taken the time to understand their specific interests, concerns, or needs that you should have gleaned from their inquiry form. Families are looking for a school that sees them as unique individuals, not just another name on a list.
  2. Passive Approach: This phrase adopts a passive stance, placing the onus on the prospective family to drive the conversation. Many families may not know what questions to ask or might be hesitant to voice their concerns. Plus, they are busy, and wasting time is not on their agenda. It is the admission counselor’s responsibility to guide the conversation, proactively addressing the family’s potential concerns and highlighting the school’s unique value propositions.
  3. Missed Opportunity for Engagement: Calling to “see if you have any questions” often results in a one-sided interaction where the prospective family may respond with a simple “No, not at the moment.” This closes the door in your face. Instead, focusing on interactive and insightful conversations can help build rapport and trust.

Effective Alternatives for Engaging Conversations

To foster stronger connections with prospective families and enhance their perception of your school, consider the following alternatives:

  1. Understanding the Customer: What information do you have about them? What did you learn from the inquiry form? Did the parents or student complete a statement? Did you or someone else interview the family, and do you have notes? What are their pain points or reasons for not going back to their local public school?
  2. Tailored Questions: Ask questions that reflect an understanding of the family’s needs and concerns. For example, “I know you mentioned earlier that you’re looking for a strong arts program. Could you tell me more about what you’re hoping to find in an arts curriculum?” If it’s a public school family, “Why are you thinking about leaving your public school option?” This invites the family to share their expectations and opens the door for you to address them directly.
  3. Sharing Success Stories: People connect with stories, so share success stories of current or former students whose experiences relate to their situation. “I have a story to share with you that reminds me of your situation. Do you have time to hear it?” Almost everyone is going to say “yes.” People love stories.
  4. Proactive Insights: Share specific insights about your school that align with the family’s interests. For example, “I wanted to share how our advanced STEM program seems to align well with your child’s passion for science and technology.” This approach shows that you have done your homework and are genuinely interested in their child’s education.
  5. Highlighting Unique Features: Use the conversation as an opportunity to highlight what sets your school apart. For instance, “I wanted to discuss our unique approach to personalized learning and how it can benefit your child.” This not only informs but also excites prospective families about the possibilities at your school.
  6. Offering Valuable Information: Provide valuable information that can help families in their decision-making process. For example, “I wanted to send you our latest guide on preparing for the transition to a new school, which includes tips from our experienced faculty and current parents.”

In the competitive landscape of private school enrollment, every interaction with a prospective family counts. By moving beyond the generic “I’m calling to see if you have any questions” and adopting a more proactive, personalized, and engaging approach, you can significantly enhance your school’s appeal and build stronger, more meaningful connections with prospective families. Remember, it’s not just about answering questions; it’s about creating a lasting impression and demonstrating the unique value your school offers.

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